Whether your child is upset with you or with a friend, take the time to understand what they are going through. Try to use the phrase “can you help me understand how you are feeling?” The goal is to see things from your child’s perspective. When children feel understood, they’re more willing to listen to other people’s point of view.
~ Dr. Karyn Gordon is one of North America's leading authorities on understanding and motivating Generation Y. For 14 years, she has consulted with youth and their parents at her private practice. She has done extensive media work, including expert on the national TV show, “The Mom Show” andher own radio talk-show, “Bridging the Gap,” (Newstalk 1010 CFRB in Toronto). She has authored three resources: Analyse Yourself for Generation Y; Analyse Your Teen: 4 Part CD Series and Raising Healthy Teens in an Age of Over-Indulgence for parents of youth. Dr. Karyn has a Bachelor in Psychology, a Masters in Counseling and a Doctorate in Marriage and Family.
